Anonymous said: oo u give relationship advice? okay well me nd my bf were already friends for like 3 years before we started dating, we're super close and chill in our relationship, but every time we "fool around" (everything but penetration) he sort of gets a lil closed off and acts very casually, as if it didnt just happen. me personally, i need a lil bit of "aftercare" just to help me feel settled emotionally. should i ask him if theres a reason he acts that way after we mess around, or is it selfish 2 ask?
It is not too selfish to ask! Communication is very important in all relationships, especially sexual ones. Tell him what you need, or ask, whichever is more inclined to your personality. If he says he doesn’t want to, then either persist, or drop it. If he doesn’t wanna give you what you need, then it doesn’t sound like he is worth the trouble. Hopefully, though, he will be more than glad to cuddle et cetera. Best of luck!
Anonymous said: Wait so you make squids? Do you sell them or something? Sorry if this has already been asked
Oh hon. You must be new.
Yes! I make and sell squid body pillows. You can find the post here:
I brought my sewing machine to my apartment (to the disdain of my neighbors) so I should be getting more squids done than (hopefully) anticipated. Woohoo!
Anonymous said: I don't know when I'm getting my first paycheck, but I'll be saving that last message so I have your information :) thank you!
Awesome!! Thank you so much!
Anonymous said: I don't have enough money to get a squid, but would I be able to donate money to you so you can continue doing what you're doing?
Yes! Message me privately or send me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org and ill give you my PayPal info so you can donate. Thank you so much! That is so sweet of you!!